Punishment is a no-no ….
The idea of punishment has no place in an adult to adult relationship between two equal partners, no matter what other dynamics exist between them on the pleasure and sexual level.
The Volunteer Coordinator
People sometimes inspire and gift us in ways they would not if they knew they did
Friday Night Rant About Folks Who Talk About Owning Another Person
Language confuses things. People cannot own people in today’s world. But some people find fulfillment in giving up their responsibility for self. These people seem to find comfort in using the word ‘owned’ when talking about such relationships.
On Trust, Power and Sexual Topping
Trust is something that one person extends to another. The person who does so is using personal power. But doing so means being courageous since extending trust means taking a risk.
Last Night I Dreamed
Dreams sometime show us sides of ourselves that we have difficulty sharing
Short Leather Skirt
Sometimes anticipation is even better than the real thing
Erotic Stories and Verse
For the women in my life who have inspired, comforted, pleasured, and thrilled me with the gift of sexual intimacy.
I have so much learned from you.I have grown from a fumbling teenager to a mature man who loves sensuality. Some of you have guided me as I discovered sides of my sexuality that I would have never thought I had as a breathlessly experiencing young person.
I write erotic short stories and poems to celebrate these journeys of discovery and these gifts of physical pleasure and joy. Some of stories and poems are based on my own experiences. Some come on the experiences of friends, shared through a level of open talk that I found amazing. Some are just figments of my imagination, based reading erotica, a genre which has become more more liberated in the last 2 decades.
Sensuality, sex, the joy of life, and the energetic fulfillment that comes with interacting emotionally and physically with an equal other have been and still are an important part of my life.
As a straight male, much of my sexuality expresses itself visually. My photography as become more sensual over the years. I continue to enjoy looking, as much as I am enthralled by expressing this side of my self in words. Seeing the grace with which women hold and move their bodies fills me with joy.