Punishment is a no-no ….
The idea of punishment has no place in an adult to adult relationship between two equal partners, no matter what other dynamics exist between them on the pleasure and sexual level.
The Volunteer Coordinator
People sometimes inspire and gift us in ways they would not if they knew they did
Friday Night Rant About Folks Who Talk About Owning Another Person
Language confuses things. People cannot own people in today’s world. But some people find fulfillment in giving up their responsibility for self. These people seem to find comfort in using the word ‘owned’ when talking about such relationships.
On Trust, Power and Sexual Topping
Trust is something that one person extends to another. The person who does so is using personal power. But doing so means being courageous since extending trust means taking a risk.
Last Night I Dreamed
Dreams sometime show us sides of ourselves that we have difficulty sharing
Short Leather Skirt
Sometimes anticipation is even better than the real thing